Here are some quick links and helpful resources
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Containment
The purpose of containment is to allow yourself to have space to separate from painful, often intense emotions until you are able to process them in the safety of the therapeutic relationship. I recorded a containment exercise for clients and want to share it with you!
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Grounding
Grounding is an essential skill needed when walking through hard moments of our stories. It helps us remember we are safe now. In the present, we can anchor ourselves by utilizing our senses and present-awareness. Set your mind outside of your body and into the direct environment around you. Looking at a drivers license or other present-dated object can be a reminder we are no longer in the past (war-time). Rather, we made it through, we are safe, and we are learning how to now exist in peace time (the present).
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Relaxation
Warm Light is an exercise I often use with clients at the end of a completed EMDR session. It is a great tool for honoring our bodies and what they carry by releasing any tension and anxiety our muscles and nervous system holds on a daily basis.
Referral List For Endorsed Helpers
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Interpersonal Conflict and Relationship Needs
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EMDR
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Life Coaching
Rachael Miller
ANd now for the book Lovers
If I were stranded on a desert island and could only bring counseling books with me, this is what I’d bring
Trauma-Informed Books
The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind, and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der Kolk
It Didn’t Start with You: How Inherited Family Trauma Shapes Who We Are and How to End the Cycle by Mark Wolynn
Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay Gibson
Attachment and relationship books
Codependent No More: How to Stop Controlling Others and Start Caring for Yourself by Melody Beattie
Attached: The New Science of Adult Attachment and How It Can Help YouFind - and Keep - Love by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller
How to Avoid Falling in Love with a Jerk by John Van Epp
Mother Hunger: How Adult Daughters Can Understand and Heal from Lost Nurturance, Protection, and Guidance by Kelly McDaniel